We’ve all been there before…ready to whoop a trick that’s messing with your man. But, hopefully at some point it clicks in your mind that the other woman isn’t the real enemy (in most cases). Who has been leading her on? Who has made her comfortable with calling, texting his phone? YOUR MAN.
I hate hearing us dog other women out, because the man is being trifling. This only leads to more drama and allows the man to escape his responsibility. Whether you believe it or not, he can’t possibly respect either one of you if he puts you in this situation.
Watching old 90’s videos, as I do way too often, I came across Toni Braxton’s “He Wasn’t Man Enough” and I was like, YES! She got it right! This lead to me searching for other videos, movies, etc. where women got smart and realized men are the problem not other women.
Toni Braxton – He Wasn’t Man Enough
Brandy & Monica – The Boy is Mine
The Other Woman
Even though Good Mariah fought Bad Mariah, she still dumped him in the end, so I’ll take it!
Mariah Carey – Heartbreaker
Know of any others? Please drop it in the comments so I can add to this list! Let’s stop fighting each other and make a winning team!
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